Cell phones — smart phones — have become an indispensable part of our everyday lives, and all too often we find ourselves feeling lost without that familiar rectangular device in our back pocket. New York is fast-paced, East Amherst can be too, and our mobile devices are a big part of that, yet, it’s still important to interact with others around us and not use the wonderful technology we have to isolate ourselves or annoy others (especially fellow members of our apartment community). Today, the Autumn Creek Blog takes a look at cell phone etiquette.
Cell Phone Tips
Use cell phones to communicate, but don’t let them rob you of the opportunity to have face-to-face conversations and interactions with others. In fact, it may be a good practice to put your cell phone away at mealtime, during family time, and when you’re engaged in a social activity — and invite others to do the same.
Use the ten-foot rule, if you must take a call in public (or a shared space in our apartment community): move at least ten feet away from others to speak. This helps prevent the awkwardness of overhearing conversations that are better kept private. Along those lines, if you need to make or take a call and you’re at a church, library, concert hall, the theater, or restaurant — step out to use your phone.
If you must keep your phone on, turn it to the silent or vibrate mode, excuse yourself to take a call, and be as brief as possible. This is especially important in business meetings, when you are out on a date, or having a family dinner. Focus instead on the in-person conversation.
A word about content. Our smart devices enable us to share photos, thoughts, and messages instantly — but be wary and smart about what you share, because once it’s in cyberspace it becomes fair game. For example, do you want pictures of yourself at the last party you attended to be floating around the internet, and perhaps show up in a background check? Be aware and avoid embarrassing moments by not posting sensitive, vulgar, or questionable content.
Don’t text and drive — and be aware of the local laws in East Amherst, NY when it comes to talking and driving — besides, It’s better to arrive safely; the text message can wait.
What do you consider to be the most important advice when it comes to cell phone etiquette? Please share in the comments. Thanks for reading today!